Risky Behavior: Knowing the Warning Signs of Suicide

Understanding the Millennial Generation: Knowing the Warning Signs of Suicide

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I approach this newsletter with trepidation. On one hand, I truly feel it has necessary information; on the other hand, I hate to have to report the signs of suicide. I would rather discuss this topic openly than to sweep it under the carpet. I want to give your fabulous content, so, I have found a great resource for you. This deals with more than just teens moodiness or depression- these are signs that you need to push the panic button, be aware of what to do and get your teen appropriate help.

My oldest son ( as an adult) had a friend in serious trouble. He called me, but did not want to “rat out” his friend. He did not know what to do- he knew the signs of suicidal behavior and knew an intervention needed to take place. I said, once he told me of the situation, I HAD to pursue getting assistance. When suicide is at stake, don’t ever take any chances. Once someone is a risk to theimselves or others- intervene! My son knew that I would say that and react the way that I did. I called the friends Mom and we talked about the situation- we were both relieved to share valued information with each other. She had more knowledge of the situation than we knew, but it was still comforting when my head hit the pillow that night that I had done the right thing. Never hesitate to call the suicide hot line for tips and guidelines either- they will talk you through your options.

Here are the early signs of suicide in adolescents:

1. Direct suicide threats or comments such as, ” I wish I was dead”; “My family would be better off without me”: “I don’t have anything to live for”.
2. A previous suicide attempt, no matter how minor. Four out of five people who commit suicide have made at least one previous attempt.
3. Preoccupation with death in music, art and personal writing.
4. Loss of a family member, pet, boy/girlfriend through death, abandonment or breakup.
5. Family disruption such as unemployment, serious illness, relocation or divorce.
6. Disturbances in sleeping and eating habits and in personal hygiene.
7. Declining grades, lack of interest in school or hobbies that have been previously important.
8. Drastic changes in behavior patterns, such as a quiet shy person becoming extremely gregarious, or, the reverse.
9. Pervasive sense of gloom, helplessness, and hopelessness.
10. Withdrawal from family members and friends and feelings of alienation from significant others.
11. Giving away prized possessions and otherwise” getting affairs in order”.
12. Series of “accidents” or impulsive, risk-taking behaviors, drugs or alcohol abuse, disregard for personal safety, taking dangerous dares.

What to do when you suspect the danger of suicide:

1. Ask direct straightforward questions in a calm manner. “Are you thinking of hurting yourself?”"
2. Assess the seriousness of the suicidal intent by asking questions about feelings, important relationships, others with whom the person has talked, and the amount of thought given to the means employed. If a gun, pills, rope or other means have been procured and a specif